When we call the question and get an answer we hoped for, we’ll all too eager to embrace the answer. But when the answer isn’t what we’d hoped it would be, it’s harder to accept it. Still, we must. We don’t live in an alternate reality where things are as we wish them. We live in this real world, and must accept whatever we find so that we can move forward informed.
Choose not to ignore the answers you get. Weigh them. If they are true and hold value, embrace that discovery. If not, genuinely not, embrace that, too.